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Post by SPS on Apr 9, 2008 13:38:07 GMT
I finally told this girl I liked that I liked her and she wants to just be friends. Why is it that it can never be more? It's my fault though because I jumped the gun and told her these things while she was recovering from a breakup but I spoke from the heart and meant the things I said. I don't tell girls I like them often and then I get stuck as a friend only and nothing else. I'm sick of this. I want to make other people happy but my happiness always comes second. I deserve a happy ending to this school year when I made so much progress. Not just some mediocre ending where I have absolutely nothing but some social progress. This summer I have nobody and nothing to really look forward to.
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Post by Galadriel on Apr 9, 2008 13:44:37 GMT
My dear SPS, You are worried over finding a girl before the end of the school year, that is not the way love works hun. There is a saying that goes like this: on every box there is a lid that fits, you will find a girl, it might take a little while longer then you want it to be, but there is a girl out there that will love for who you are. Don't put an ultimatum on finding someone nice, the moment you least expect it, she will be there. You're still so young, take your time, enjoy life while you can, true love will find you
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Post by twoheadedragon on Apr 9, 2008 13:47:24 GMT
I'm in the same situation as you SPS, except I made a complete fool of myself and told her I was in love with her! So thanks Gal, that's encouraging for me as well!
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Post by Galadriel on Apr 9, 2008 13:55:01 GMT
you're welcome, I guess. I know it may sound cliche, but when I was younger no guy would even look at me. Now I'm getting 31 and no kidding, heads are actually turning, it did help for my selfesteem, which was very low during my younger years. I still don't find myself pretty, but I smile a lot more, my eyes are shining a lot more. Maybe that made me look different from the outside, and that helped to change me from the inside. On the plus side, I have now this attitude that if people don't like my face, well, there is plenty of room next to me to look.
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Post by twoheadedragon on Apr 9, 2008 14:01:32 GMT
Heads are just turning? I wold say rolling involuntarily... ;D The thing is true love is not about looks, it's about the heart. I fell in love with her, but she doesn't return the same feelings and even asked me to keep my distance... Oh well, life moves on... Plenty of room next to you to look? Not a little lower than your face... ;D
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Post by Galadriel on Apr 9, 2008 14:05:06 GMT
Plenty of room next to you to look? Not a little lower than your face... ;D Why you little pervy... I mean naughty guy ;D
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Post by twoheadedragon on Apr 9, 2008 14:08:35 GMT
Plenty of room next to you to look? Not a little lower than your face... ;D Why you little pervy... I mean naughty guy ;DOh come on, I was just reminding you that some guys don't care about only the face...
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Post by SPS on Apr 9, 2008 14:10:10 GMT
I'm not looking for a girl before the year is over it would be nice but just to have someone who cares about me that I can talk to. It just sucks that I can't seem to catch a break with the ladies y'know?
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Post by Galadriel on Apr 9, 2008 14:11:12 GMT
Why you little pervy... I mean naughty guy ;D Oh come on, I was just reminding you that some guys don't care about only the face... Lol, I know, when I see a guy doing that, I use the line I heard from Jack Black in the council of Elrond parody: hey dude, eyes! up here! and point to my face ;D BTW, you got a pm
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Post by twoheadedragon on Apr 9, 2008 14:14:27 GMT
I'm not looking for a girl before the year is over it would be nice but just to have someone who cares about me that I can talk to. It just sucks that I can't seem to catch a break with the ladies y'know? Oh, don't worry, you'll get the right one at the right place at the right time, and she'll love you because true love doesn't come from money, good looks, the ability to bench-press 250 lbs, etc. but it comes from the heart. Like I told you, I'm in the same situation as you are, the same age as you (roughly, I'm not sure what year you're born in), but I'll just keep trusting, waiting and keep my eyes and heart open.
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Post by Galadriel on Apr 9, 2008 14:17:30 GMT
I'm not looking for a girl before the year is over it would be nice but just to have someone who cares about me that I can talk to. It just sucks that I can't seem to catch a break with the ladies y'know? Oh, don't worry, you'll get the right one at the right place at the right time, and she'll love you because true love doesn't come from money, good looks, the ability to bench-press 250 lbs, etc. but it comes from the heart. Like I told you, I'm in the same situation as you are, the same age as you (roughly, I'm not sure what year you're born in), but I'll just keep trusting, waiting and keep my eyes and heart open. That's the way to go THD! I wish you both good luck in finding true love, cuz nothing is worse then being with someone that doesn't seem right after all, I know trust me.
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Post by twoheadedragon on Apr 9, 2008 14:23:08 GMT
That's the way to go THD! I wish you both good luck in finding true love, cuz nothing is worse then being with someone that doesn't seem right after all, I know trust me. [/color][/quote] Thanks, BTW when my dad was about your age Gal, his wife (who he'd kind of rushed it with) left him with their newborn baby girl, but he didn't let himself get embittered by that and now, him and my mom have been married for 25 years and have 4 children together!
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Post by rockergrl on Apr 9, 2008 14:32:00 GMT
Don't worry you will find someone! I know it might feel like it's never gonna happen, but trust me it will. Your perfect girl is out there, and when you two meet it will be wonderful!
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Post by twoheadedragon on Apr 9, 2008 14:37:07 GMT
Don't worry you will find someone! I know it might feel like it's never gonna happen, but trust me it will. Your perfect girl is out there, and when you two meet it will be wonderful! Judging by your signature photo (if I'm wrong I'll smack myself on the head), I'd say you've found your perfect girl!
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Post by rockergrl on Apr 9, 2008 14:40:41 GMT
Don't worry you will find someone! I know it might feel like it's never gonna happen, but trust me it will. Your perfect girl is out there, and when you two meet it will be wonderful! Judging by your signature photo (if I'm wrong I'll smack myself on the head), I'd say you've found your perfect girl! Oh no you didn't! btw you do honestly know that's Aly & AJ my fav singers right? I mean I've honestly had people think that I was one of the girls in my signature pic.
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Post by Elliot Kane on Apr 9, 2008 14:41:37 GMT
Heh. You mean Sisters Aly & AJ, Dragon? ;D
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Post by twoheadedragon on Apr 9, 2008 14:44:39 GMT
My apologies Rockergrl, here goes: (BAM!!! One head down, BAAMMMM!!!! Both down!!!) Ohhhhh... my heads...
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Post by rockergrl on Apr 9, 2008 14:47:14 GMT
LOL! It's all good! btw my special girl is so special and hot I don't wanna have a sig of her on here or everyone would go crazy and wanna steal her jk!
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Post by twoheadedragon on Apr 9, 2008 14:50:31 GMT
LOL! It's all good! btw my special girl is so special and hot I don't wanna have a sig of her on here or everyone would go crazy and wanna steal her jk! (Gets up, sees everything spinning) Good for you! I'm glad you found your special girl!
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Post by LaFille on Apr 10, 2008 3:05:28 GMT
Sorry to hear that, SPS; it sucks but all hope is not lost... She's not interested now, but it doesn't mean that she will never be or that you would necessarily lose a level of friendship with her after this (and a friend is someone that cares for you too). On the other side, it might be that you'll find someone that suits you better if you remain open to those possibilities. Don't let the disappointment win, keep the chin up, continue to work hard and I'm sure you'll can achieve your dream.
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