|
|
Post by Shan on Jan 9, 2007 21:44:48 GMT
some things happened in chat last night that concerned me and i think it is time for me to let everybody know just where i stand in all of this. when misty was banned, i was shocked and confused. i had no idea what was going on. i couldn't understand why. i think some of you thought i was priviledged to alot of inside information that i was not. even to this day, i still do not know the whole story. from reading the thread, there seems to be a number of people here who have quite a bit more information concerning this than i do. after the banning, bad wolf sent me a pm telling me who he was and wanted to talk so we met and talked. believe what you want, but i did not know who bad wolf was until after misty was banned. why didn't i come forward with the information, because he told me in confidence and i do not believe in breaking confidences under any circumstances. i broke one at one time and the result was devastating to everyone involved. in fact there was alot of trust and belief in friendship lost which is still lost between all of us today. yesterday, when elliot and steve came to me asking me to confirm who bad wolf really was, i talked to bad wolf and he told me that it was ok for me to tell. in fact he encouraged me to tell the forum saying that he didn't want to cause any trouble for me. the decision to continue to keep quiet was mine and mine alone. so are we still friends or not? the decision is up to you. before you decide though, i think you should know. i became good friends with misty and nights while we were playing awakening and i am still good friends with them. God did not put me on this earth to hate and fight with people. He put me here to love and care about everybody and to always try to let his love shine through me and i honestly do not think he would have wanted me to break the confidence i held. so whether you believe you can still be my friend or not, i love you and still call you friend. i love you misty and nights. thank you for being my friends. shan  |
|
|
|
Post by Terrordar on Jan 9, 2007 21:49:45 GMT
The love speech is a bit overdone, being as their IP's are banned and they probably have very little way of accessing your speech.
And on another note, even though I'm not going to hold it against you Shan, concealing those whom are banned, and forcing a pull-teeth like procedure is not very helpful to anyone. Nights was banned for a reason. Misty was banned for a reason, even though I hate to say it as I did get along with Misty.
If someone is banned, and comes back, you do NOT harbor them.
|
|
|
|
Post by Elliot Kane on Jan 9, 2007 21:50:34 GMT
Shan, you have nothing at all to worry about, I assure you. I blame you for nothing in all of this mess, in any way shape or form, and anyone trying to give you a hard time had darn well better be prepared to take me on as well. Who your friends are is utterly your own concern, and no business of mine or that of anyone else here. I would in no way expect you to think other than you do. I have plenty of friends who don't get along - they are all still my friends. From my POV, this matter is closed and no more need be said Welcome home |
|
|
|
Post by Gray Lensman on Jan 9, 2007 22:10:24 GMT
Shan, thank you for coming forward with this. I accept your word in this, and I understand where you're coming from. I am also willing to put the entire Bad Wolf situation in the past at this point. I feel it does no one remaining any good to dwell on a matter that's been resolved. As far as I'm concerned, Shan, you still remain my friend. Welcome back and I hope for better times ahead. |
|
|
|
Post by Venom65437 on Jan 9, 2007 23:47:30 GMT
Awwww, I still wuv you Shan!!!  |
|
|
|
Post by janggut on Jan 10, 2007 3:58:24 GMT
@ Shan -> no worries, u do what u feel is right. no need to justify it to anybody. |
|
|
|
Post by Shan on Jan 10, 2007 4:05:09 GMT
The love speech is a bit overdone, being as their IP's are banned and they probably have very little way of accessing your speech. And on another note, even though I'm not going to hold it against you Shan, concealing those whom are banned, and forcing a pull-teeth like procedure is not very helpful to anyone. Nights was banned for a reason. Misty was banned for a reason, even though I hate to say it as I did get along with Misty. If someone is banned, and comes back, you do NOT harbor them. but i love you too td and i would do the same for you. |
|
|
|
Post by janggut on Jan 10, 2007 4:08:54 GMT
i think he's just hungry for love but too manly to ask for it. ;D
|
|
|
|
Post by Shan on Jan 10, 2007 4:20:19 GMT
i think he's just hungry for love but too manly to ask for it. ;D might be jags. i really think he is afraid he's not going to get his share. ;D |
|
|
|
Post by Shan on Jan 10, 2007 4:22:09 GMT
Shan, you have nothing at all to worry about, I assure you. I blame you for nothing in all of this mess, in any way shape or form, and anyone trying to give you a hard time had darn well better be prepared to take me on as well. Who your friends are is utterly your own concern, and no business of mine or that of anyone else here. I would in no way expect you to think other than you do. I have plenty of friends who don't get along - they are all still my friends. From my POV, this matter is closed and no more need be said Welcome home thanks for understand elliot. i really appreciate. it. want to pass around some love so td won't feel left out? i just couldn't stand it if he thought i was trying to leave him out. ;D |
|
|
|
Post by Shan on Jan 10, 2007 4:23:22 GMT
Awwww, I still wuv you Shan!!! awwwwwww, and i still love you too venom. thank you. |
|
|
|
Post by Elliot Kane on Jan 10, 2007 4:27:28 GMT
Shan, you have nothing at all to worry about, I assure you. I blame you for nothing in all of this mess, in any way shape or form, and anyone trying to give you a hard time had darn well better be prepared to take me on as well. Who your friends are is utterly your own concern, and no business of mine or that of anyone else here. I would in no way expect you to think other than you do. I have plenty of friends who don't get along - they are all still my friends. From my POV, this matter is closed and no more need be said Welcome home thanks for understand elliot. i really appreciate. it. want to pass around some love so td won't feel left out? i just couldn't stand it if he thought i was trying to leave him out. ;D Hard to see what else you could do, really |
|
|
|
Post by Shan on Jan 10, 2007 4:33:53 GMT
Shan, thank you for coming forward with this. I accept your word in this, and I understand where you're coming from. I am also willing to put the entire Bad Wolf situation in the past at this point. I feel it does no one remaining any good to dwell on a matter that's been resolved. As far as I'm concerned, Shan, you still remain my friend. Welcome back and I hope for better times ahead. thank you for understanding that they are my friends and that i had to do what was right for me. you can come help us show td how much he is loved if you want? ;D |
|
|
|
Post by Glance A'Lot on Jan 10, 2007 10:42:44 GMT
Shan - While I'm rather careful with the word 'love' - especially towards females - as to me it has a rather restricted and highly valued meaning, I do like and respect you a lot for what you are, not who you associate with. Also, while I do think that Nights and Misty should reevaluate some of their attitudes and work on their communication, I bear no personal grudges against either of them.
|
|
|
|
Post by Dark Phoenix Rising on Jan 10, 2007 12:53:18 GMT
Shan, while I don't know you very well, I have to say I like you for who you are, not for the company you keep. Who you are friends with bothers me not, and who you want to continue friendships with is not my business.
IMO friends are friend dispite the differences not because of...
|
|
|
|
Post by Lews on Jan 11, 2007 0:35:13 GMT
I LOPV EPEOPLE BUT I LIK VOKA VOMORE
|
|
|
|
Post by Shan on Jan 11, 2007 1:02:22 GMT
Shan - While I'm rather careful with the word 'love' - especially towards females - as to me it has a rather restricted and highly valued meaning, I do like and respect you a lot for what you are, not who you associate with. Also, while I do think that Nights and Misty should reevaluate some of their attitudes and work on their communication, I bear no personal grudges against either of them. Thanks Glance. Thanks for accepting me for who I am. That is a great gift to me. |
|
|
|
Post by Shan on Jan 11, 2007 1:04:16 GMT
Shan, while I don't know you very well, I have to say I like you for who you are, not for the company you keep. Who you are friends with bothers me not, and who you want to continue friendships with is not my business. IMO friends are friend dispite the differences not because of... Thanks DPR. That is all I could ever ask, someone who accepts me for who I am. |
|
|
|
Post by Shan on Jan 11, 2007 1:09:47 GMT
I LOPV EPEOPLE BUT I LIK VOKA VOMORE  I think you would be better off loving VOKA less and people more. ;D |
|
|
|
Post by Venom65437 on Jan 11, 2007 1:32:18 GMT
But Vodka make you love people you wouldn't normally love! |
|
.com
